On a Saturday morning I was waking up with my coffee and my son asked if I would play a game with him. Having nothing on the schedule for that day I told him we'd play later. Then I checked my email and found out that on Monday my son's 3rd grade class would celebrate Dr. Seuss' birthday by having Silly Hat day. I said to my son, "Great, you can just wear one of Dad's welding caps like you did last time it was Silly Hat day." He looked at me and, with a voice as small as Cindy Lou Who's said, "Can you make me a Cat in the Hat hat." Well, how could I say no to that.
I googled and thought, decided to knit, then to not.
I wound up making a hat out of felt and it turned out super awesome!
This is the kind of thing, as a Mom, I want to be remembered for.
When I was in 6th grade we moved from San Antonio to a small town in West Texas.
We only lived there for one year and I didn't have a lot of friends that year.
As an adult, I had a conversation with my Mom and she casually mentioned something about when she had been my Girl Scout leader. I had no memory of her being my leader. She said it had been my 6th grade year. I was a leader for my daughters troop for two years and I know it's a lot of work. I felt horrible that I didn't remember my mom being my leader. (I'm actually thinking maybe I was somehow a troop of one that year and she just managed my independent study or something.)
Years from now, when I'm gone, I want my son to remember the day I made him a hat. I want him to have lots of memories like that and to know, through those memories, that he was loved. Even though it was also the day I said I'd play a game with him and never did. At bedtime I apologized that we never got to play a game but pointed out that he had an awesome hat - and he agreed with that.
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