The two doctors felt that most people would not want to know. One indicated that it was also available for Dementia patients too. I wish I had known! When my mom was suffering from Dementia it seemed like it all happened so fast, especially the end. I think I would have appreciated knowing how close we were. I might have been more prepared or had a different focus and made different choices.
The doctors also said that years ago it was common practice to give a prognosis of the likely amount of time left for a terminal patient but now there has been a shift and doctors are told not to take hope away from the patient. I've heard this philosophy along the lines of the power of positive thinking. I definitely believe in positive thinking but I think it is unwise to stick our heads in the sand.
I'd rather be told I have six months and make a personal resolution to beat it and prove them wrong and look at every day past that as a gift. On the other hand I do like the commercial for The Cancer Treatment Center of America that says, "none of us comes with an expiration date."
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